Tuesday, December 18, 2012
Making Retirement Beneficial
Alfred Adler identified and developed the basic ideas expressed in this blog entry[i]. I used his approach to the understanding of personality during the years I worked as an Industrial Clinical Psychologist. I still think of myself as an Individual Psychologist, which is what he called himself and those who used his model.
During our lives we strive to achieve things, most of which are connected to our social relationships. In addition during the years of our employment a central focus is to do the very best job we can to seek perfection. In addition we generally live and work within various forms of community relationships.
. All of my life I have sought to do my very best. I have also worked to help others. I believe that I have had these goals since my younger brother Rodger was born and I started “helping” my mother. At first I did my best to please her. After a while I did my best because it felt good.
Now in the middle of my second year of retirement I must respond to new challenges and adapt to the world as it changes. I expect that these adjustments will continue until the end of my life. But let’s not get too far ahead of ourselves.
One of my key activities has the creation of this blog. In addition all of the over 171 posts on my blogspot are dedicated to my goal of doing my very best to help others who have either retired or are planning to retire. I have had over 1000 visits and I intend to continue posting.
The questions I have asked myself are below. Ask yourself and let me know it they are helpful:
1. What goals would you like to achieve during your retirement?
2. What accomplishments are you most proud of during your work life?
3. What social relationships are most important to you?